Jim June 13, Marni I am sorry if I have taken to much space in your blog? Mae and I had a soulmate love affair! We had a couple drinks to celebrate then I carried Mae to bed. We made love and fell asleep in each others arms! I got up dressed went home jumped in the shower my wife joined me I carried her to bed and made love to her on my birthday in the morning!
Jim June 10, Part 5 The reason it worked for Mae and I was the 38 years between us didnt bother us and since my wife was busy with work and allowed me to be oncall for Mae it was great. Mae loved that from the first time I made love to her I would call her and thank her for a great time. I told her after the second month that I loved her and her response was I care for you very much. Finally on our 1st anniversary of our affair my wife was away on business Mae and I went out for dinner I brought her roses and back to my house.
I carried her up to bed and made love to her I told her I loved her and she finally said I love you. Mae and I make up a list of fix it projects to keep me coming for Mae! My wife having to go out of town on business even suggests I go to neighborhood pool party with Mae as my date! She tells Mae that I am her date and keep a certain blonde neighbor away from me! One neighbor told my wife your husband and Mae are having a affair!
I gave her his phone number so he can help her. Mae and I went to the pool party and the neighbor that told my wife came by to talk to us! I walked Mae home and at the front door knowing she was watching we shared a long passionate kiss! I told my wife I kissed Mae because the neighbor was watching! My wife laughed saying she will be calling me to tell on you! Jim June 9, Part 3 I being 30 and my wife 22 made it easy for me to have Mae 68 as my mistress!
My wife was thin but large chest 36dds! Mae would wake me at 3 we would make love again I would shower with Mae and get home in time to make supper! This made Mae and I getting together so much easier and my wife never dreamed that I would take a lover 38 years older when I had a wife 8 years younger! My wife would make love to me 4 or 5x a month. We worked opposite shifts giving me plenty of time to make love to Mae. My wife would go out of town for a week I would be at Maes and we would make love day and night and I finally had her come to my house and make love in my bed.
Jim June 2, I first saw Mae I was The second time I was I knew she was older but I didnt know how old. We hit it off from the start. Her husband left her for a younger woman and I was married 3 months when I found Mae the second time. Our affair lasted 22 years til alshiemers claimed her mind. Her sister met me at her home a couple years earlier in Maes home and said we tried fixing her up with men her age but she turned them down now I understand why.
My wife knew Mae but never dreamed I was in bed with her every week. Emma April 29, For the past 2 and a half years I have been dating a guy 14 years my junior. He is 32 and I am I have 3 kids and he has none.
We go through daily teenage tantrums and toddler activities and needs. He has a very good heart and extremely affectionate and loves the kids. I never experienced such goodness in previous relationships. The battles I face though as an older woman is firstly he is unemployed and cannot maintain a job. His sexual drive is extremely low. Also my kids get irritated because if they ask me a question then he would respond.
I know he is just trying to be part of the family and respect him for that. How do I maintain the balance as I would not one to loose him. He even love me more than I do. Sometimes I imagined that if all those men that ever per sued me lined up I still choose him over them though he may not stable financially yet but he is working on it now.
We know what we are thinking, we supports, encourage or motivate each other. I really appreciate it when he shares his problems, fear, doubt, accomplishments in school or job even when he being happy. Make it easy for me to communicate with him and he respects my space as well.
He seems to be more matured than his age and always think in advanced. Then I found out that he actually become serious with me which I never thought it all and now he planning to come for visit again.
I had ask few closed friends of mine just to know their opinions mostly they are very supportive and told me not to break his heart except some of them disagreed coz of age. I never ask him about his family reactions but he going to introduce me to one of his family members. And one of my friends said it does not mean that if you choose someone with the same age like yours can guaranteed you a happy marriage. All depends on you and your partner to determine which course or journey you going to embark as long you guys happy.
I think the key of everything is communication and how mature the man is. Everybody deserve to be happy…. I live in the US, New York precisely. We have been together for nearly 2 years and have a baby girl together. She also has 3 sons. I love her more than I thought I could ever love someone. I see how good of a mother she is to our children and it makes me love her all the more. She is the kindest most loving person I have ever met and I have been all over this nation and never met anyone like her.
We plan to marry in June and I do not take such a commitment lightly. I intend to be there for her until death do us part. I would put my life in her hands and she would do the same for me. We have a love that is the envy of all her friends, not because of my physical appearance, but because of how well I treat her and how happy we are together. If there is a huge age gap, I could see there being some kind of issue in the long term but for the most part, age does not matter.
Maturity, common goals, and dedication are deciding factors with age gapped relationships. I know 3 older women now im griends with but i know a lady that im interested on who is a year younger these other women are divorced but tjey are great freinds any advice on what i should do? My ex and I were married for almost 20 years and together for most of 28 years He was 10 years younger … met him when he was 27 married him when he was 36 and I was Age was not a factor in our divorce Due to a health issue when I was 31, he was aware I was unable to have children which happens to many women during their child bearing years for one reason or another.
It also was not a factor in our divorce. My father died 22 years ago and my mother is still living and relatively healthy at age Men marry women much much younger all the time and no one blinks an eye. There is no rule that women cannot do the same and it makes so much more sense for a woman to be older. Many people are fine being childless. As long as the person is an adult and not developmentally delayed in some way and is not capable of making a thought out decision regarding who they will marry..
Again, as I said previously, men marry young women all the time with little flack. While I personally just think people… both men and women…. No matter how old their partner is at the time. What is important is they are mature enough to understand the seriousness of partnering legally and understanding their own needs in a partner.
I was just curious on what people had to say on dating younger men. I had dismissed any kind of relationship in my head as I just assumed we would want different things. I already have a ten year old son from my previous marriage. It would take a very special person for me to let into my son and my my life. Of course there are all forms of human depravity but realistically any man in his 20s or 30s going out with a 50 year old is a loser looking for his mommy. TOM December 28, Since dating my cougar there are 3 things she loves to do to me.
One is making me work. Two at times loves to seduce me. Also the cuddle time is always fun while she teases me. She also knows when I am about ready to sleep.
Sweetness December 25, I am 50 n he is Dave December 18, This woman has been married 5 times and most of them seem to be, at least partially,career decisions. Directors, producers and collaborators who she got work with.
Maybe Alla Pugacheva does. Sonya December 14, 27 years age difference — a happy marriage between a Russian singer of Alla Pugacheva, born in and Maxim Galkin born in A 30 year old and a 50 year old can still have a lot in common and be physically compatible.