Let me start this article off by telling you that all women are different and what they expect from a man will be different. Most women want to date men but for some reason, ironically, end up dating boys. I personally wanted a boy in my life not a man; I ended up dating and falling in love with a boy.
My bad boy grew up with me, and I am proud of the gentleman he has become. Many of you might not agree with me but for me the criterion which differentiates boys from men is completely different. For all you know, he might turn out to be the biggest jerk you have ever known. Here is my definition of what a man should be like. A man is willing to listen no matter how harsh the criticism might be, he might not agree with you, but he will listen.
Any boy who loves his woman will man up enough to at least hear his girl out. If he is incapable of doing so, your relationship might not go a long way! He might have a million flaws but if he listens and tries to correct his ways to put a smile on your face, you have a man on your hands. Boys get intimidated by certain things women do and because they cannot express their feelings of fear, they resort to cursing. He might still be a good lover but he has issues. My bad boy used to curse all the time but he stopped and began to accept people for who they are.
I sat him down and we talked about how I felt when he cursed and told him how pathetic he looked when he did.
He knows his Goals A man knows what he wants to do with his life and works hard to achieve his goals. You can see him working and doing his best.
You might even be his inspiration to push forward. They are just disoriented and they need time to get their act together! He might not be able to buy you an iPad for Christmas but he will get you the best thing he can afford! He could be a miles away but he knows that no one would love you better and your heart and loyalty lie with him. He might miss you but he will always trust you.
He will admire you for stepping up and taking initiative. A man will see his success in your success! He would be way above looks A man would love if you dress up for him, but nothing will stop him from loving and admiring you for who you are. You might be on your period and feel like an ugly smelly alien, but this will not stop him putting his arms around you and swinging you off your feet.
Working around the house will not make him feel less of a man. He will be loyal no matter what A Victoria secrets model might be sitting in front of him but this will not stop him from loving or admiring you for who you are! He will not want more women in his life to satisfy his selfishness.
He will stay by you no matter what. He will take a stand He will stay by you no matter what. No matter what comes your way, he will stick by you. He will be your biggest support and will make sure that you both get through the blizzard no matter what! He might not be ready right away but he would love to discuss the idea with you.
The idea of starting a family with you will get him all hyped up and excited. His smile would say it all. A good man is no doubt a blessing. Let me know in the comments below. And as always, stay blessed and keep the love alive!