Treat her like a human being: She has the same foibles as any woman of any racial background. She gets cranky, emotional, temperamental and once a month, I have to hide under the couch Foghorn Leghorn voice: That time of the month is a killer for her and believe me, I wish it went easier for her.
We took the time to get to know each other as man and woman, not some geographical or racial characteristic that is pinned on us from birth. You need to be confident, trustworthy, and genuinely interested in her as a person. If you come across as shallow and only wanting to date her for her race, then you will FAIL. Get out of that mindset of being interested only in a woman because of her race. You want a woman who will stand beside you in tough times, but you need to lay the groundwork to be worthy of that.
Right now your mindset is telling me otherwise. There's no best way, There's no silver bullet. This is me and my fiancee, we'll be married in January. We met in China when we were working as expats in Beijing. I dated a few before that, So I can speak only from personal experience. You asked "Are white girls into Asian guys? Stop doubting yourself, the question itself makes you come across as being meek as a person, and that's not very attractive.
Same applies to white woman, Most of them don't care about race, They just wanted to be with a person who they can feel comfortable with. Nothing turns people off more than being fetishised and being put on pedestal, white woman are human beings too and they expect to be treated accordingly.
And most importantly, stop seeing them as trophies and your social status embellishment. I do admit that I've met so many Asian guys are more socially impaired, because Asians put other stuff ahead of dating such as education and work, thus creating social impairment in dating area.
But dating, of course, eventually catches up in their life and just like a new born baby deer exploring the wilderness for the first time, You are bedazzled, confused, curious and need to know and see someone who can show you the rope. The fact of the matter is: They simply don't know you yet, they don't know your quality and what you have to offer, so why cut yourself short? If some of them don't like you because you're Asian, who cares? You should reward the people who want to be with you.
And as far as I know, people who are open to date other race is bound to be more open minded which is the one you want to be with. Improve what you can control and accept what you can't control such as race, height, facial contour, etc. Here are some stuff you can do: There's crapload of fashion advice on the internet so I am not gonna elaborate my point here. Do work out, it helps your confidence. Have a strong confidence, not arrogance.
You can be smart but stop thinking that's a key to get them to like you. Stop caring what people think of you. Stop thinking women only care about material and looks, you'll end up resenting them if you keep thinking white woman only date muscular white guys with money. In fact, very few of white woman care about materials, why? If they do turn to be a gold-digger, don't bother with them. Stop looking at statistics to see if you stand a chance with white woman, ignore those little colourful charts by Free Online Dating OkCupid or Pew research centre, those won't help you, you'll just end up feeling exasperated.
Don't accept second class treatment, have value and self respect. Have a hobby or passion. Nothing turns a woman off quicker than a men without ambitions and 'go with the flow' like a dead fish.
Be present in the moment, when you're talking to a woman, actually talk to them and stop waiting your turn to talk, forget that esoteric 'cool' conversation you'll want to say to impress them.
Let go and stop being uptight, be able to laugh at yourself. Learn how to talk slowly and know how to hold a fun conversation. Be comfortable in your sexuality. Don't be yourself, BE your best self. I am by all means not a dating expert, I've just had my fair share of dating, At the end of the day it's up to you to take my advice or not.
Because of our culture, we are very much aware of nuances, details of subtle cues and unspoken words, and are taught to consider the other always. Korean dramas all consist of a man who ends up falling for some girl and doesn't have the guts to tell her for 10 episodes and instead picks on her and is magically there to help her when she needs it.
Don't be that guy. Majority of white people don't watch Korean dramas and don't understand why the hell they'd do that If you meet a white woman that you're interested in, make sure you're comfortable and confident in yourself to talk to her like a normal person. Get to know her; ask her questions that really get to know who she is, but don't just go straight up to her to any woman.
Those who I have successfully gotten to know and approach, I've had to use a prop i. If she's apprehensive and doesn't seem open to discussion, just say have a great day and leave her alone. No need to make anyone uncomfortable. Besides, women who cannot differentiate an honest guy from one who has selfish ulterior motives probably aren't those who you want to get to know anyways.
For those who enjoy getting to know you, they're waiting for an invitation for a date--grab some coffee, go to a local comedy club, walk around the park, find a music venue, etc. It's exciting for you and for them because really, it's honestly a new synergy of culture and perspectives that either you or they haven't really experienced. But always remember, what shines the most is how comfortable you are in your own skin.
When people say "be confident", it looks nothing like Gaston in The Beauty and the Beast. It simply means you know your strengths and weaknesses and are able to enjoy life.
That's attractive to Anyone. This also applies to women approaching men, not always the other way around. Kai Peter Chang , Apostate. Neo-American, stranger, follower, traito You need to reevaluate your strategy and raise your Male Dating Market Value, as described in this answer: What should be my strategy for meeting girls that are East Asian, attractive, socially well-adjusted, conservative, and willing to date introverted Chinese atheists?
What is male dating market value? The ones who are top-tier 99th percentile in ALL categories have their pick of the best grad schools, same way that a guy who is 99th percentile in ALL categories of male dating market value have their pick of women.
In the dating world, male dating market value are in no particular order: Deficiencies in one can be offset in part by extra strength in others.
Unfortunately, just as in the academic world, severe deficiencies in a single category cannot be redeemed by virtue on others. Meet women of all races, of all body types. Be friendly to everyone - including the gals you don't have any attraction to, and don't bend over backwards for some girl just because she's hot and you think you have a shot at making her your girlfriend - she's probably got a dozen guys like you on a string. Learn to open up conversations with total strangers, be a leader of men join a club focused on something you care about OUTSIDE school, and work your way to a leadership position.
If you haven't already done so, join a sports team - any sports team and get yourself sweating on a daily basis. BE THE MAN that women brag to their friends about, the guy who climbs mountains and volunteers at a children's cancer ward on weekends, the guy who led a blood drive at the college campus that collected units of blood while serving as captain of the Crew team. No girl brags to her friends about the fact that her boyfriend got a perfect score on the Math section of the SATs.
Why do some Asian women in the U. All that said, Asian guys who walk around with a racial chip on their shoulder like this Asian guy who has a self-reported multimillion-dollar fortune and seems to be intelligent and otherwise successful who asked this question: What is the optimal strategy for an extremely wealthy, ethnic minority tech entrepreneur to date lots of Caucasian print catalog models and aspiring actresses, with minimal pain and effort and maximum enjoyment?
What woman wants to be with a guy who sees her just as a representative of her race? How demeaning and patronizing would that be? It's one thing to have a aesthetic and cultura preference for some subset of women, but you need to fix your life and quit fixating on a specific race of women if you wish to have success with them, be they Asian, White, Latina or whatever.