This is for all of the guys who are worried about how their dating life will be affected once they shave their head. The first thing you need to do is learn to have more confidence. You have to love who you are. If you can't even love yourself why should someone else?
If you are uncertain about yourself you give off a "vibe" to women and this leads to more rejections or being perceived as creepy.
Not a good thing You will see throughout this post that confidence is the key word. Women have a different sense of attractiveness. Of course there will be a bunch of women who care only about looks, and there is nothing wrong with that. However, there are a large majority of women who do not view looks as the top factor, if a factor at all.
As guys we usually place attractiveness on looks alone because we need to make the first approach so that is how we weed out girls we don't want to talk to It sounds shallow but it is true for the majority of us Girls, unless they make the first move, don't really use a preselection process.
Instead they will usually be receptive to an approach, as long as you're confident, and then judge you from there. This means a women will care more about how you make her feel during the interaction than what you make her feel when she sees you. This means that you need to work on your conversational skills and eye-contact. Eye-contact is key to making someone feel like you care about what they are saying and that you are being attentive.
Obviously looks help, but it is not the end all be all with women. Some girls just don't like bald guys. You have to realize this is true and since there really isn't anything you can do about this, who cares about them!
There are plenty of other women who won't care about your hair at all. Again be confident in your hair or lack thereof. If a woman makes a comment about it, it is usually a "shittest" and they are just seeing how you respond. If you are uneasy or not confident then you just shot yourself in the foot. However, if you make a joke about it and own it, you just passed the test and now you have a shot. This will help you in many ways not just with women. You will look better, you will feel more confident, and you will just be healthier.
Women will tell you that what you wear can be more important then your natural looks. Someone who is a 5 can turn into an 8 with the right clothes. Then finally, i said how women care about how you make them feel during an interaction. For this you need to learn what to say or how to incorporate different techniques with women such as slight touches on the arm or how to successfully use the push-pull technique..
Once you put all of this together it won't matter that you're bald. You will be the best version of you and that is what girls want. Yeah, when they are little they dream about having the perfect guy. But then they date the "perfect guy" and realize that his personality is shit and they can't stay with him.
They do that more times and then they are "done" searching for the guy with perfect looks and will look for the guy with the greatest personality. As long as you look like you take care of yourself a girl won't care about your shaved head. Make Eye-Contact with Everyone for a week. This challenge is for those who struggle to make eye contact when they are talking to people doesn't have to just be women. Eye-contact is super important in social interactions and if you struggle with it, you NEED to fix it.
This challenge is very simple to describe. Make eye-contact with everyone you encounter. Walking past someone on the street? Yes, I know this will be difficult. Yes, it will feel really awkward. But you need to do this in order to get used to making eye-contact. Another thing with this challenge is that once you achieve eye-contact don't be the one to break it. Keep holding eye-contact until the other person looks away.
Also, if you do this with women, and you are able to hold eye-contact for a good seconds throw a smile, and if they smile back. Embarrass Yourself Embarrassment is one of the biggest fears for many people.
This can keep people from doing something that they really want to do all because they are fearful of being embarrassed. The best way to get over being embarrassed is to just force embarrassment on yourself. Try to make the worst case scenario happen, just to show yourself how hard it is for that worst case to happen, and to show yourself that most outcomes really aren't that bad. Approach girls, but do it with the goal of being rejected. Be the worst version of yourself. Be super awkward, be way arrogant, have your opening line be "sweet potatoes", literally anything.
Once you realize that rejection doesn't matter, and that your worst case scenario, whatever it is, is very hard to achieve, it'll be much easier for you to have a normal conversation where you are not trying to butcher it.
Karaoke is meant to be enjoyable. Go up there, sing your favorite song and enjoy it. Literally anything that can cause you embarrassment, do it. Once you learn to not fear embarrassment you will be much more outgoing and confident in any social encounter.
The best way to learn how to communicate effectively is to practice. This will sound scary at first but once you start you'll realize it can be awesome to meet so many different people. This doesn't have to be a full length conversation where you talk for 10 minutes. Some ways to start a conversation: Then continue from there when you get more comfortable.
Waiting on a long line? Talk to the guy in front of you about it. See a girl wearing a cool shirt? See a guy wearing an awesome hat? They could be in a hurry somewhere, they could be having a bad day, they could just not want to talk. At least you tried. Once you get more and more comfortable, talk to more and more people. I know this has been a long post but I have seen so many different posts about dating once you're bald and I wanted to put this out there to help everyone.
I know that before I cut off my hair I was in the same boat. Baldness doesn't matter to a majority of women. Learn to be confident in yourself. Learn how to hold a conversation. All of this will matter much more than whether you have hair or not.