Hi everyone, This is gonna be one big rant! I f 24 was raised by my comparatively young single dad My mom died shortly after I was born. Still, I had the best childhood I could ever wish for. When it comes to women, my dad was always honest with me.
He did have a few girlfriends while I was growing up, and it was always ok with me. Me and my fiance m 30 were invited for breakfast at my dad's yesterday morning. When we arrived at my dad's house I saw one of my best-friends f 25 car parked in the driveway. I thought 'hey, cool. While we were having breakfast my dad told us, that he and my friend are together!! To be honest, I thought he was joking.
When I realized he wasn't, i was furious. They tried to tell me when they first started dating, etc. I don't want to know that they've been together for three months before telling me, I don't want to know anything about their relationship. He tried to tell me how sorry they were for not telling me sooner etc I was so mad, that I just got up and left. This morning, I thought that maybe I was overreacting, and wanted to go see my dad and talk about what happened yesterday.
When I arrived at his house, she was there too. I told her, how disappointed I am in her for not having courage to tell me, after all we used to be best friends. When I got to talk to my dad, he told me how ashamed he is on how I reacted yesterday, and that he didn't raise me to be as ignorant as I was yesterday!
I got so freaking mad at what he told me that I just started yelling stupid things at him. I also told him, that I don't want them to attend to my wedding next spring. He then asked me to leave. I just can't believe this. I feel like I'm stuck in a bad movie. Yes, I do have a problem with my dad dating a 15 years younger women, who is also my friend. How can I get used to it?
I don't think of my dad as being a creep for dating someone my age. It's the fact he's dating my friend that's bothering me A LOT. My dad is dating my friend.
They hid their relationship for about 3 months. I have problems accepting them being together. Also I uninvited them from my wedding.