August 29, Dating: Hearing about your friends with their succesful relationships and trying to find someone for yourself can be harder than people think. Instead of focusing on the downfalls of dating, let us have a look at improving the odds. How will you be catching all those fish in the sea? Time to take the fish in the sea metaphor to a new level. Assume you are going fishing. Where are you going to go fishing? Then you are leaving your entire interactions to chance.
Yes, at times men will approach you and you will end up happily married at least for a while but then you are still limiting yourself to some eager fish that jump out of the water. Have casual conversations with everyone and see how it feels. That is the act of fishing for the sake of fishing.
If you happen to catch a catch, you keep the catch. There are definitely more fish here and even some other ladies out fishing. You begin to feel a little lost and low on choice. So you put the bait on your hook and begin moving about insistently to get the better catch than the other ladies. You feel nibbles but they tend to scare off. Those too eager do not look natural Usually a worm does not act as though it is having a seizure. Initially it looked like a tasty treat, after all it is something to enjoy, although after approaching the bait they saw that it seemed TOO keen to be eaten.
High standards are good but you need to filter a larger audience No longer are you limiting yourself to the pond and have found the river and nearby ponds. You are meeting new people and men whilst enjoying it without attaching too much expectations on the fish to solve everything in your life. Now you need to know what you want and make sure you get it. The more fish you hook, the more you can observe and decide whether you throw it back or keep it.
After all, if it is a really good catch, you will only need that catch to keep you satisfied. Until you know that and that usually is not immediately , just keep an open mind and allow people the opportunity to prove their value to you. Be picky but let them prove themselves through your actions. Just like you prove your worth.
It was definitely an entertaining read and brings to light how to become a high-value woman. There are two essential steps to take. Step 1 — The ultimate formula for attraction Visual chemistry — There is a huge difference between objective beauty and perceived beauty. Perceived beauty occurs when someone becomes attractive through behaviour. Perceived challenge — High standards are attractive because they create aspiration. She has a passionate life he wants to be part of. Things he aspires to.
Connection — It is what makes someone realize they can be together for hours on end. Certainty is the primary attribute of a high-value woman. The high-value woman is engaged in meaningful activities that make her passionate every day. A woman with integrity sticks to her principles.