Dating a BJJ Girl: We are only human: Do I sound bitter?? Since finding my one True Love Jiu-Jitsu , my perspective is clearer than it has ever been. The black eyes, ripped out hair, cut skin and spider-guard knuckles are my new boyfriends, and I plan to keep them around indefinitely.
Any single woman who loves Jiu-Jitsu would probably agree, that a good date with a great guy that knows about dating a BJJ Girl is the best-case scenario. Did I hear you correctly? Did you just ask me if I want to skip training three weeks before Pan Ams? To go see 50 Shades of Grey?? You can enjoy Mr. Want some ideas for a BJJ Girl first date?
I would love to train with you where I feel most comfortable and at home. Just know that all of my BJJ Guys are like my big brothers, and they will want to put you through their own assessments! Carlson Gracie Temecula guys are classy though; if you are nice to me, they will be nice to you ;. Understand that randomness and spontaneity will always have to do with training.
Would I love to just take a drive to visit a nearby big city and get some great food? I would have no problem sitting down for nice meal, completely gross and sweaty, if it was because you took the time to learn a move on YouTube to teach me in the park. It sounds weird, I know, but my mind is always on Jiu-Jitsu, so my advice is to use that to your advantage. My weight is important to me. Starbucks and Coldstone, while delicious, are sugary and fattening; this means that your insistence on that triple-chocolate sundae paired with a Trenti Mocha Frappucchino will not only cause me a mountain of stress, but will also guarantee that I spend that next 72 hours stress exercising, and avoiding your phone calls.
I make no secrets about my dedication to my training, and no complaints about the lack of men going after me. If you get mad because Jiu-Jitsu interferes with your chances at having a cute girl on your arm for the night, then please either reread this post, or move on to a girl that prefers shopping for dresses more than shopping for Gis. We will both be happier for it!
This is the 21st century. You are a guy, I met you at the gym, and you have big muscles. I recently visited The Brentwood Club and had an awesome roll with Renato Laranja and some of the students. However, no one let me win, or just gave up their positions either. They allowed me to work through my own technique during the roll while keeping the pressure on.
If you are able to give me that kind of training, who knows? It could be love at first roll! As for you BJJ Guys: See you boys on the mat!