October 14, at 1: He is not your boyfriend so do not treat him like your boyfriend. Definitely date other men!
Go see whats out there. You have to be the prize and this guy is not treating you like one. Listen to me…once you treat yourself like the prize, you will be amazed how men will treat you that way too.
He is not your boyfriend and does not deserve any girlfriend like behavior from you. He does sound selfish mind you! Start dating others and be less available for a bit. See how he reacts to that. October 14, at 2: And at 3 months, there should have at least been a discussion about exclusivity, especially if you are sleeping together.
That being said, I think you need to fall way back and focus your attention on dating others. Best case scenario is the guy initiating putting the label as by this time, he can reasonably know whether or not he wants you to be his girlfriend. A man who wants to be your boyfriend will not openly party with you with those other women.
Ask yourself, is this the kind of man you want? The best thing to do is what the ladies are saying here. You have to mirror his actions —— you should be dating other men openly, i. If he texts you, politely respond but keep busy with your life. Date others, go out with your friends. I would never inconvenience a friend just so I could do what I want. I hold my friends and family with the same standards and expectations I give them. Anything less is not acceptable. October 14, at 3: I guess I should clarify.
They are friends of both him and his roommate. The other 3 were some girls they met at another festival and one of them has a thing with the roommate. Defiantly pull away and be less available with your time. You say you havnt discussed the relationship subject because you want to see if it happened naturally.
You also sound like me very laid back and easy going. This is not good because guys will take advantage. Hes having his cake and eating it to. So do as the other said pull away… fill your time with friends and family. If he asks to hang out on Friday say you have plans and are only available on Sunday, make it on your terms. Dump him and find someone who at 3 months is acting like a real boyfriend with a name on it. October 14, at 4: Wait for a guy who would never treat you this way. So, if you want to be with him, pull way back.
Find a good one who treats you like gold. November 2, at The ad said I was looking for a decent, honest man with integrity. And so much kind of like that well anyway this guy I meant he said yes he wants the same thing and we both want marriage and all this eventually.
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