What you think you deserve and what you think you can get. So it shouldn't be a surprise then that the first section of this course is mostly related to developing an "irresistibly confident" mindset that will easily attract the kind of great men you want to date.
Pre-Dating Phase The Setup Just as you need to prepare yourself to "do a speech" or go to a "job interview", you need to prep your mind to date and date like a superstar with men. If you're slobby, half-assing it or try to brush this off as "a guy should just like me for me", you're sabotaging yourself. It's not just about showing up to a date, it's about HOW you show up. Because they don't understand men.
Women do themselves a disservice when they assume men think like they do. Men speak in their own language and the things they care about are different to what women care about. Therefore, if you want to truly have greater influence over a man, you must speak in his language. Meet Quality Men Where and How There's a reason why some women can easily get into relationships and others can't.
I'll explain why that is, and it's not because they have low to no standards. If you're not meeting a lot of quality men or you're short on men, there's also a reason for that. I'll show you where and how to meet an abundance of great men so you're "never" short on dates. Dating Section Two Time Frame: This is the traditional "dating" period but with a twist. You don't just "date", you have certain standards, rules and criteria to follow to ensure that you're not getting off track.
Behaviorial Dating filter and escalate Step 5: Behaviorial Dating filter and escalate Behaviorial Dating is a dating strategy that answers the following questions for women: Is this guy interested?
Why isn't he calling me? How often should we speak? Why is he losing interest? How can I get him to ask me to be his girlfriend? Should I ask him out? Should I make the first move? Behaviorial Dating is the act of "rewarding" a man based on whether he reaches certain milestones. Just the kind of system a man responses extremely well to. The reward you give him is your TIME. The beauty of this system is that it is simple and puts you in control.
Dating should be stress-free, drama-free and just all-around as enjoyable as possible. If you're spending a lot of time stressing over a man because of these questions, you need this strategy to get yourself back on track. Section Three Time Frame: When a man is into a woman, he knows very quickly if he wants to commit to her or not within 1 month. In particular Step 5. What makes this stage troublesome for some women is because they didn't "prep" themselves correctly and tried to rush a man into a commitment.
There's no need to rush or push. I'll show you how to progress the relationship to this point and beyond. Get Commitment Engaged or Marriage Many women find themselves stuck here.
It's another one of those "bottleneck" situations and I myself was also stuck here for 2 years in a previous relationship. In order to reach this level, you'll need to use a different set of skills and different set of "knowledge" about men. Men have different needs and requirements depending on which "stage" of a relationship you're at.
A man you're dating is happy to become exclusive, but to move him to "true commitment" is to really understand what a man NEEDS in a relationship. People are driven by two controlling forces; the need to avoid pain and the desire to gain pleasure. The biggest reason you are not in a relationship right now is because you may not be ready for a relationship. I reveal common 5 toxic blocks and how you can dissolve your insecurities quickly and get a solid handle on them pronto.
But how do you stop insecure thoughts? This special formula will vaporise your worries and fears at the drop of the hate, and make you clear-headed, self-assured and back to being Irresistibly Confidence once again.
I'll show you a simple blueprint so you never have to "lose yourself" in a relationship again. The secret to Irresistible Confidence is self-love and acceptance, but what does this actually mean? Where is that fine line between honoring your own needs and making sure your man is happy as well?
Are you sick of men that disappear on you? Discover "crucial moments" and how to properly handle them to move your relationship forward quickly. How to ask for what you want and get it every time. How to talk to a man during a conflict that will bring you closer. These key moments will either trigger deep attraction in a man OR it will turn him off. Sometimes even saying a simple yes or no at these key moments has a tremendous impact on the course of your relationship.
Men fall in love differently to women I will reveal how men fall in love differently to women and what men need in order commit to ONE woman. And so much more! These seduction triggers are "extremely" potent and powerful and must be used with care. With great power comes great responsibility. If you've ever said or did said that you suspected may have put a man off.
I'll show you what to say: I'm Ready to Get Mr Right! Frequently Asked Questions How will I know this program is for me? Or if it will help me get into a great relationship with a man? I am convinced just about anybody can learn to become irresistibly confident with a man and get the relationship they want.
That part depends on the man you pick. But I have great confidence in your ability to transform yourself into an irresistibly confident woman, who demands the attention of high caliber men, captivate him and hold his attention, make him fall deeply in love with you and would do anything for you if you asked.
First, contrary to popular belief, being irresistible is not about what you look like; your ethnicity, how big or skinny you are, how you do your makeup or hair. Men are visibly attracted to beautiful women, but the moment a beautiful woman opens her mouth, she can still turn him off.
There is at least 3 beautiful celebs were have been dumped by some guy out there. If you had the ability to attract someone in the past simply by chance, imagine what you can do if you knew what you were doing and focused on bringing out more of your attractive qualities on purpose?
You already have the inherent natural abilities to be attractive! And also my own background tells me that just about anybody can learn this strategy for themselves. You may be able to easily fall into relationships in your early 20s, but past a certain age, most people are jaded and guarded about dating. How is this program different to others? IDM shows you how to be open and communicate your standards to a man. Which are key things to building emotional connection with a man. Therefore you need to have some kind of emotional bond from the beginning.
This method ensures you seek out that bond early in dating and not waste time on purely physical connections.
How long does it take to work? That depends on you. If you come into it with an open mind, your transformation can begin the moment you understand the concepts. Then this program is perfect for you. You also will NOT need to do any chasing. I firmly believe women do NOT chase. Men pursue and women receive. They may be confident in a few areas in their life, eg. Irresistible Confidence fills in those gaps for women and gives them a solid strategy for how to obtain that confidence with great men.
Will it work for me? Yes, it will work on any woman serious about finding love and building a true connection with a man. I believe in building fundamentals of human connections and relationships, that actually last. So if you can move, talk, think, then this will work for you. Is it some gimmick like other products? IDM is based on long term results that work to build real confidence and self-esteem — not the fake stuff. It also helps you understand the fundamentals of building human relationships, things built on trust, honesty, consistency and emotional intimacy.
This program is really looking out for your best interest in the LONG run, not simply give you gimmicks to try for the here and now that may work but may damage your relationship in the future.