If you're saying that there are NO flighty people on here who are totally indecisive, talk to way too many people at once or just disappear for no reason, you're wrong. I've had it happen, I'm not too proud to admit it. Speaking to them on the phone 1 night, THEM asking me to come meet them THAT night, me having to decline because I was well, running a fever of , nothing serious really. To them, just disappearing. So, if you're saying I should look within for the answer to this, I guess I shouldn't get sick.
That stupid expression gets passed around these forums WAY too much. And for the record, I had her laughing her ass off on the phone for over an hour, she told me I was very handsome I told her she needed glasses she told me I had a VERY sexy voice and emphasized that several times.
Asked me at least 4 times to come meet up with her. Gee, I guess I really wasn't all that now was I? Looking within, I guess I should pull my lip up over my head and swallow so as to rid the world of myself. It isn't extinct, but it surely isn't common. Then you have the delusional, the know it all's, the serial daters, the freaks, all smothering the people who are actually serious.
It isn't because the site is free. See also, the story of the frog and the scorpion. It is so very easy to lie on the internet, especially if your intent is to just get laid. And this is the perfect way for someone with that trait to operate. For as many times as I have heard this topic brought up, I can not believe someone would still be saying, look within.
Some are VERY good liars, your only fault, being trusting and falling for it because you are a decent, kind, moralistic person and expected them to be, why wouldn't you? The golden rule, way too many have forgotten it. Treat others as you would like to be treated for those wondering. Why they disappear is only known to them, and you never see anyone here posting about WHY they just disappear do you? That may very well be the longest post I have ever made.