To the poster above, you make an interesting point, except your descriptions are way too narrow and in the case of Libra they largely miss the key personality traits. Also, couples don't have to agree on everything and be carbon copies of each other.
Opposites work really well, as can ones who just compliment each other harmoniously. You'll find it's a lot more complicated than just finding similar traits: I am a Libra woman that has had a relationship with a Gemini man for 4 years. It has been the best and worst years of my life. The first two years were difficult, but these last two years we have both really developed. He gives me what I want, I give him what he wants.
We are both major flirts, but share a much stronger connection than any fling can ever bring. It is a challenging yet satisfying relationship. He truly does make me happy, and I believe that we have both made each other better people. The sex is great, the communication is nearly perfect, and how we balance each other works out wonderfully. Although many previous Libra women complain and say that it's the worst relationship ever, I believe that it really does depend on the people and the connection they share.
It wasn't easy, he's hurt me a lot, but I have in my own way, hurt him as well. Every relationship faces difficulties, and my Gemini man is a wonderful guy.
Whether he's deceptively charming or not, I'm glad where this relationship has blossomed. I'm a Gemini male. Rising sign in Gemini, Moon in Leo. I was married for over 16 years to a Leo woman. In all that time I did not once cheat on her even though I was very unhappy with the marriage Only when I really looked hard into my birth chart did I realize why faithfulness was so important.
Apart from looking at where your Venus Love placement falls in your chart, Mars Anger, Drive and other planets need to be understood to see your unique self for who you are and the ways in which you respond. Berating Gemini's and for that matter other signs for being 'typical' is paramount to judging people by the color of their skin. See with Gemini guys you gotta trust them if you do not have trust he will leave an I realized I needed to change, when he get's in his bad mood let him talk but do not fight back with him you have to have understanding.
We are much better now an I see it an feel the better change in our relationship. He isn't going to change if you don't period. They are hard to talk to if you don't know his moods. I am a Gemini Man and loved a Libra woman indeed they are by far the best at kissing very sensual, beautiful there is a natural ease being together and both are very intelligent. I would like to point out while the nature of Gemini is to flirt once he loves you then your the only one in his heart forever both Gemini and Libra have negatives both intelligent enough to address them and work through it if your worried he will cheat?
My advice is that the two signs are not good for marriage. Perhaps dating only because Gemini does not offer the maturity and stability that a Libra woman desire. We are very compatible intellectually, sexually and have a lot of fun when we are together, however the Gemini man is too fickle and flirtatious.
We have had to do some major reconciliation because of his cheating. I find him to be very deceptive and will lie very easily masking it with charm and ease. Gemini men are not mature enough for marriage. Love them at a distance. I have been in a relationship with a Gemini man for 4 years and he's the love of my life. We've had ups and downs and we have both stuck to it firmly.
We love each other greatly, I respect him and he respects me. I feel we're very compatible and sometimes it feels we can read each other's minds. I think our compatibility goes beyond our star signs to be honest. I am a Libra woman and I have a Gemini male friend for the last six years. At first things were not the best, his moods were up and down and he was very indecisive. Over the years we both have grown older and wiser and there is a new "spark" that has recently arisen. We fit perfectly together because we are so different.
I am the symbol of balance, while he is the symbol of chaos. They say opposites attracted and honestly I believe that you have to balance one another or things will become boring. We have been romantic before recently, we actually dated for over a year. Although, as I said before; it has taken becoming older and wiser for us to understand how to deal with certain life circumstances.
Libra's stick with your Gemini's they become awesome. I am a Libran woman that has been recently hanging around with a Gemini male. It started off as a chat now and again, but one drunken evening I was seduced by his charms. He is highly musical, smart as a whip, and very However, I find that I am dealing with different people constantly due to his dual nature.
One day he can't get enough of me, talks up a storm, and the next day he can't be bothered. It is frustrating as hell. There are never any concrete plans, and they are just Approach with caution most definitely.
As a sensitive person, they can do a real number on you emotionally. We make each other laugh all the time and we enjoy each others company. I have been reading some of these and wow I think women are just to needy it's no wonder men leave you dummies. My boyfriend has really strong believes of not cheating due to his past relationship, the girl he once loved cheated on him and had a baby from someone else. Now he loves me. A Libra female, my journey with my Gemini began over two years ago.
While I can attest to the many ups and downs of our tumultuous but fiery relationship, I will admit that both Gemini and I are very social, flirtatious and prone to wandering off from time to time; we're young. However, we do seem to find our way back to each other time and time again. He has hurt me - left me hanging, missed dates with no explanation, disappeared for various periods of time, etc.
The chemistry between these two signs is absolutely undeniable. Despite what your Gemini does, know that some of his playfulness is innate and not necessarily done purposely to hurt you.
I've dated three Gemini's in total and they're the only men I think about fairly often Well I am a Libra female I've only been with a Gemini for almost 3 months. At first we were just dating we both had heart broken before we even met each other. We did get a long mostly the dating part because we both wanted a serious relationship so we did got together after all.
I believe in zodiac signs at first it was all a joke but ever since I started reading about my personality it was so true even Gemini personality fits him.
As a Libra I like to be classy and not easy to get so I played hard to get at first and I love testing guys to see their patience and personality. When we just started as friends we loved talking to each other he loves talking a lot and very intelligent mostly using words and me I wanted him to know that I am unique in my way but what really made a Gemini like me is because we love talking and I treated him almost as my best friend so I finally decided..
The problems I have I s that I am very loving it's easy for me love a person and I enjoy being with him and so does he but the problems we had was jealousy and sometimes I trip easy and think negative that's why Libra are very argumentative. I am a bossy most argues we had.. You might think he's immature but you have to accept him who he is and influence him good what he needs to change for the better.
If you change and he doesn't he will feel left out and Gemini don't like being left out they like to be the same with you at most times. Gemini are a fun relationship but don't expect to much romance if you expect romantic guy then he is not the one for you. I have a question? We had an argument about him being to sarcastic and some how I just get mad and think wrong easy well ever since that argument it was fix we still talk but not like before when he always will be the one making a topic now its me..
Is it because he is afraid that he might say something wrong? He always tells me he likes me a lot! I've been with my Gemini guy for 7 months. I love him to death and can't let go of him, but I've never told him lol.
We are like two puzzle pieces and fit perfectly. I fear that if I let things become too easy for him and do everything he wants then he will lose interest in me and move on. So I tend to keep a slight distance even though he will ask to see me every day. I too have a fear of being stuck or tied down so when things start to feel like we are becoming too comfy I push him away and we drift. We always find our way back to each other.
All in all things have been pretty amazing so no matter what happens I have no regrets. I'm a Libra girl and I really like a Gemini guy. I think he likes me too. But after reading this comments, I'm not so sure if I should liking him or move on.
I need a honest answer will this relationship really work or is it just a waste of time? My guy is really nice, sweet and shy.
He is definitely not a cheater I really need advice, please help!