So let's take them one at a time and hear what James has to say. Adelaide The Hidden Aussie Paradise. You'll regularly see a really average-looking dude with a mullet, flannel shirt and a pack of Winnie Blues with a model-hot woman, dressed to kill. He theorises that any male with a "bit of go in him" leaves Adelaide by age 21, leaving many extremely hot girls to fight it out for whoever's left that'd be the dude with the mullet.
Sydney Awesome, if you know what you're doing and tick all the boxes; otherwise it can be tough. Men have a huge number attractive, intelligent women who will only date a certain kind of guy and a large number of tourists to choose from," says James.
On the flip side, he says it's a brutal environment for women over So much so, that many decent women just give up on dating altogether, making the dating pool even smaller for less confident guys. There aren't many of those to go around. And they get no shortage of attention. It seems the private party scene is big and if you can't break into it, it can be tough meeting great girls in bars. If you're not skilled or bold enough to try to talk to girls during the day it can be a really difficult city," says James.
So, if the Cross is not your style, you'd think hot girls don't go to bars much. A woman who grew up in eastern Sydney may need to marry a man on a reasonable income if she is to live near where she grew up, and be able to take time off work to raise her kids," says James.
In this respect, he argues Sydney has become very much like New York and London: There are lots of accomplished, lonely people here. He also says that, because of the huge focus many Sydneysiders have on their careers, many professional men aren't particularly masculine and many professional women aren't particularly feminine. Not likely to happen in this country.
Brisbane Plenty of great-looking girls to go around, although James's clients report struggling to find a decent conversation. Upgrade your style from a printed T, you might stand out.
James says it's roughly a gender split of attractive people in Brisvegas. Guys who learn a bit about style and go beyond the printed T-shirt once in a while might do really well," says James. James says these are his impressions of Brisbane, as "I've spent the least amount of time here of any of the cities".
Melbourne About average; maybe not quite so much glamour but far many more interesting and enlightened women. Having run many events in Melbourne and dated lots of girls there, James says it's roughly even-Steven for both sexes.
In many respects, the cliche is true; Melbourne is a more enlightened city than the other Aussie capitals. Another interesting thing about Melbourne is that the people seem to travel a lot more than the other capital cities, which makes them more worldly," says James. Compared with Sydney, it's very friendly and both sexes seem to have a better sense of style.
Unlike many of the other cities, the bars and clubs aren't purely pick-up joints or meat markets; they're just nice places to hang out in," says James. Canberra Beautiful, clean, well organised city. But cold and everyone knows everyone. I'd bet any half decent woman living here would have a very easy time of it with dating," he says. Intelligent, single Sydney girls might consider the three-hour drive. Armies of tall, athletic, masculine men and just a few seriously hot girls to go round.
Remember, though, a little bit of style and culture can go a long way with some of the best ladies. James says dating can be very tough for guys, yet for fit, reasonably attractive women it's very easy. It seems there are 10 tall, athletic, masculine, highly-paid guys for each hot girl," says James. It seems to be an extremely masculine place, even in the really wealthy places. Fit, attractive women have it very easy," he says. However, thanks to the mining boom you'll also encounter "materialism, status-consciousness on a grand scale".
This would be among the really beautiful women, who are not willing to date just another beer swilling, surfing, footy player," says James. Billabong hat, singlet, boardies and thongs with Oakley's sunglasses won't get you far here, however.
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