In the previous section, we showed you how to select great photos for your profile. Now it's time to write a kick-ass bio that describes how awesome you are! Here is some helpful advice and a few valuable tips: Although there's nothing inherently wrong with these sentences, you should avoid using them if possible, since so many other people have them on their profile.
The good thing is, if you write a unique profile you'll immediately set yourself apart from others on the site and gain an advantage. The key is to present yourself in a creative way. We'll get into more detail about how to do this in the sections below. This is an important space, because it shows up in searches beside your photo and can be used to catch someone's attention.
Most people don't put much thought into their headline and will write things like "looking for love" or "nice guy looking for a nice girl" It will only make your profile blend in with everyone else's and could even convey desperation or a boring personality. Instead, go with something witty and unique that either creates intrigue or makes someone laugh. Maybe a movie quote, a pick up line or joke referring to one of your hobbies. Also, writing about trivial things is sometimes effective if done correctly , because it demonstrates a sense of humor and a non-desperate attitude.
For example, we've had great success using headlines like "I can count to 10 with my eyes closed. What were your other two wishes?
A common thing that people do on their profiles is they simply state their qualities and interests, as opposed to explaining them. Don't write something like "I'm a funny guy who loves to sing, and I enjoy spending time with my nephew.
For example, you could write something like this: He says we should take our act on the road, but I think he needs to brush up on his harmonies first.
To make things easier, you can do a few things in your profile like stirring up an emotional reaction that will entice her to message you, or including questions for her to answer. Here's a simple example: If you know of any local restaurants that serve a decent chicken tikka masala, please share them with me! It will give the woman some questions to ask you and things to talk about. The goal is to make her want to learn more about you.
Also, don't write down too much detailed personal information, because strangers may be able to use it to look you up on google or facebook and find out details that you may not want them to know. A common mistake that guys make when writing a profile, is that they treat it as if it's a resume or job application. By writing a serious profile, they often come across as too desperate.
Women may think you're boring and cannot get dates in real life. Your goal is to be perceived as a person who is interesting and fun, not someone who is dull or creepy. It's important to display a certain level of intelligence and maturity on your profile.