Answered w ago A better strategy than trying to escape the friendzone and turn the friendship into a dating relationship is to start quietly paying attention to her female friends.
When you see one that you might have some interest in dating, ask your friend about her to collect information and start dropping hints to you friend that you like her friend. Girls talk and when your comment about "liking" the other girl reaches her All people have a tendency to like people that like them first.
Additionally, when your friend is the deliverer of the message, she acts as a positive reference. People respond to social proof and lean towards doing what other people similar to themselves do.
So, if your friend refers you then she has in a sense already vouched for you to some degree. This alone will not create a relationship, but it sets the stage for a favorable introduction. As long as your first meeting with the new girl is a positive interaction then your chances are very good.
The first date is an important first impression. Everything about you will be evaluated, dressing style, promptness of arrival, willingness to lead and direct activities, personal hygiene, education and conversational ability, financial status, self confidence Engage her emotions with honesty and genuine interest in getting to know her. Take her to a place for the date where the two of you can move around and talk Avoid being boring and predictable Follow this suggestion and you will have both a new girlfriend and your original friendship intact.
Yashvardhan Singh , Relations are made in heaven. I just try to advice you on your story! Afterall we are all in search of love.. So let me start with this. Firstly try to get yourself out of the friendzone!
I am not asking you to end everything but now focus on things to make her feel special. Try to talk to her about it. This may sound a herculean task but I guarentee you it will install a 1 bhk flat of likelihood in her heart for you.
Some cases it may vary also. Dont lose hope, atleast you dared! Be the last one to wish her on her bday and ocassions! Yes I know I sound wierd but wishes at 12 are too mainstream now.. Stand out of the crowd! Send her some flirty messages but mind you not cheap ones! Like choose a number and ill give you dare types and secretly change the content of the message you want at the no she chooses.
Works like a charm! P Be true to her. Share your happiness and sadness with her. Treat her as if she is a princess and you are a prince! I wont refer to the above as tricks or hacks to get her to love you but let me assure you this will get her to know you better, understand your feelings and maybe if you are lucky enough she chooses to be with you.
S- Never ever try to play with emotions. Perhaps you could suggest going to the cinema, caress her hand like by accident or put your hand on her back or something of that kind, only slightly and see how she reacts to that kind of new level to your relationship.
If you already hold hands as friends and all sorts, I only handheld hands with guys I liked, we were meant to be "friends" but I didn't matter being something else. If something else didn't happen is because the guy didn't push it further than holding hands and being tender, I kind of think he loved just being loving with me but not in a sexual way, although we had a lot of sex innuendos.
I was insecure at the time and didn't think I would be a good lover for someone used to have every girl trying to seduce him, and what women So I had only had one two or three prior experiences so I didn't feel like that side of me could ever impress him for the better. So I guess he could smell that. Other than that we were like girlfriend and boyfriend and everybody It got to a point we went clubbing and none of us could get anyone home because everybody assumed we were a couple.
And that's when we stopped hanging out as much. Yet when I found a boyfriend not long after that So perhaps telling her obviously may help as well if you have past that stage.