Answered 26w ago Yell and shouted at him, scold his name or pounch his face, what ever makes you feel better are allowed at such a situation based on your controlling your anger.
All should be categorized into two parts: Is his family happy? If it is, that means you are just a desert after his lunch. At this time, all men are controled by his body below. Or he is geting big problem with his family and his wife. Sometimes we all know that men have big pressure for their marriage , children and married wife, which make him feel difficult to get devoiced till he meets his right. If so, as k yourself, are you willing to wait for him and stand his children who are born by his ex?
Are you willing to stand by him with pressure, moral condemning? What are you feeling when you are dating him? Or just because of his big and strong body? Does your so-called love occure on a situation of television programmes? So based on above, you have get answers. This article will openly and honestly describe what the typical experiences and outcomes are in these relationships so that you may be more prepared, educated, and informed about what you should expect, and how to handle it.
Remember that his first priority will always be his children and his wife, no matter what he says if he loves you an his wife at same time.
If he lied to you in the beginning about whether or not he was married, you should seriously consider whether or not you can trust him.
Do not sacrifice everything for him. Go on dates with other men. He's not giving up everything for you, so you shouldn't give up everything for him either.
Your relationship will change if he divorces his wife for you. It will not all be fun and games anymore. Make your relationship worth your time. Ask him to support you financially, or at least make sure you're getting as much out of it as you're putting in. Don't let him take advantage of you. Be honest with yourself. What you're doing is risky. Own up to the risk. Very likely, he will not leave his wife for you. No matter what he says, he's still having sex with his wife.
Don't let your relationship with him keep you from seeing other people. Loving and dating a married man can be extremely painful and seldom works out well. If you need more specific answer for more specific questions, you feel welsome to connect me on my profile. Somehow, you weren't able to read it on him, that's not your fault, and nothing to feel ashamed of. If he is able to snow you about this, and willing to… what else is he hiding?
Does he hit women? Is he a thief, does he have a major drug habit? If the other reasons listed haven't struck a chord, this one should. He is a dishonest, danger to you. I recommend ghosting him. Because he should not be able to reach you, or touch you in any way, ever again in any way.
If you must communicate with him a final time to return something or whatever, find your biggest, meanest looking gay best friend yes, lesbians with a mean streak and weapons training will work. Heck, take 5 or 6 of us… Let us do the talking.
Something like… here's the crap you left in her car, etc. No one is interested in anything you have to say. If you see her coming, cross the street, if you contact her again, you will have to deal with us. You had better hope nothing EVER happens to her. Because we promise the police will visit you and your wife first. Why gay, well, in my experience, we're not quite as likely to lose control and give him a beat down, but if he BEGS for one, we can provide it!
Further, we are often less likely to judge you, blame you or do anything but protect you. Nothing good will come from this. This is an extreme instance, but I believe it's indicative. I had a friend and coworker we'll call Willie. Willie had a girlfriend, also a coworker, whom we'll call Amie. Wille was married, with a young daughter with a serious, chronic medical problem.
But Willie was not married to Amie. I believe that Amie knew that Willie was married. One day, early in the morning, Willie was driving home from work, and had taken an entrance ramp onto a freeway.
Much as she cared for Willie, Amie did not attend her friend's funeral. His family and other friends were there, but Amie was not. Is that what you want? Don't look back, and don't EVER mess around with another woman's man. Before I can say anything, the ring gets snatched up greedily, a trembling hand clasped around it, and greener-than-green eyes darting a quick and nervous glance at me. The voice in my head stirring my whole being with a sense of urgency. Not here; not now; please.
Not after three glorious weeks spent together with a man whose presence alone makes me weak, stupid, blind. Three little words becoming heavier with each passing moment, their weight unbearable among the many other questions I had been asking the past week, their answers twisted and bent by his beautiful mouth and lapped up by my eager ears.
But these answers only satisfied for so long, and the countless hours of unanswered text messages and several dates spent at places on the far side of town all led to this very moment I found myself in, finally alone with him in a quiet corner far from the cheerful crowd. And even though his mouth does not move, his leaf-green eyes tell me everything I need to know. Where they had been a colour I felt all of me lost in, they now carry a sickening green of lies and betrayal.
Eyes matching the ugliness the truth had finally exposed. Although I cannot tell you, the poster of this question, what to do, I can tell you what I did: I walked away without looking back, and I cried.
I cried not for myself, but for the wife and child of a man who I doubt will ever respect the sacredness of marriage; a man whose beauty had forever fallen - scattered - as it made way for a selfish nature driven by his desires which will surely be the death of him. I walked away, for I refused to be consumed - killed - by what I knew would do exactly that. I walked away for me, exactly because I deserve more.
If he will date others while married, he will not stop. Some people love the suspense and danger of maybe getting caught so have many many affairs while married. Sometimes it spices up a boring marriage for them while they have absolutely no intention of leaving their marriage.
You are being used….. Walk away and see other nice men who are not married. View More Related Questions.