Being Too Much of a "Nice Guy" Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted to "nice" guys? Of course you have.
Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date "jerks" What's going on here? It's actually very simple Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is.
They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently. Well, I have news for you But we all do it. When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind. One that will never work. Looking to Her for Approval or Permission In our desire to please women which we mistakenly think will make them like us , us guys are always doing things to get a woman's "approval" or "permission".
Don't get me wrong here. But if you think that treating a woman well means "always getting her approval and permission for things", think again. You will never succeed by looking for approval. Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her If you're like me, then you've had it happen a LOT.
When you do these things, you send a clear message: Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. Sharing "How You Feel" Too Early in the Relationship with Her Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they "feel" too early on. Attractive women are rare.
And they get a LOT of attention from men. Most men don't realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or another ALL THE An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who are interested. Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men.
They know what to expect. And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates. This signals to the woman that you're just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast There's a much better way You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.
But does the same apply for women? Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on? Well, after studying this topic for over five full years now, I can tell you that women usually have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things OTHER than looks.
Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around? Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman. But it's not an accident. And ANY guy can learn how Thinking That It Takes Money and Looks One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they've even gotten started And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things.
But MOST women are far more interested in a man's personality than his wallet or his looks. There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys. Let me say this again: Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants.
Women aren't attracted to Wussies! I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you're out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it. And if you don't know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won't help! And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her, getting physical If you don't know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up And you KNOW it.
This is the mistake that keeps most men from EVER having the kind of success with women that they truly want. I know, guys don't like to make themselves look weak or helpless. We don't like to ask for help. Hey, I've been there myself. Let me tell you a little about me and how I figured out how to be successful with women About five years ago I became fed up with the fact that I didn't know how to approach, meet, and get dates with women that I was attracted to.
It frustrated the hell out of me. One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted to ask out, but I just couldn't get up the nerve to do it. I can still remember that night Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all kinds of crazy things, I finally figured it all out. I can now approach just about any woman and get her number almost instantly. I've dated models, I've dated actresses, and I've dated nice, normal, regular girls as well.
It has been a very rewarding experience. I no longer feel that sick, insecure feeling I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out and meet attractive women. I've written a book on the topic, and I've done seminars on both coasts of the United States And I'd like to invite you to sign up. It's free, there's no obligation, I'll never share your email address with anyone, and you can easily remove yourself anytime with no hassles and no, I'll never pull any of these tricks where I send you a bunch of unwanted junk email when you try to remove yourself.
Of course, it even gets better than that It's JAM PACKED with dozens and dozens of specific strategies for overcoming fear, approaching women, getting phone numbers and email address from women quickly, great inexpensive or even free date ideas, and how to take things to a "physical" level smoothly and easily. To sign up for my free three-times-a-week newsletter AND download your copy of this online eBook, just go here: In this day and age of "instant gratification", I realize that this might just sound like another late-night info-mercial promising to make you rich by next week.
Well, that's not the case. I've spent a lot of time, effort, and energy writing this eBook. I now believe that ANY man can be more successful with women and dating, and I get emails every day with success stories from guys who are using this program to meet and date wonderful women. I know, I know If you'd like to take your success with women and dating to the next level, and have the kind of success that you've always wanted, then go sign up for my free newsletter, get all the details, and check out some great free samples of the eBook located here: And I'll talk to you again soon.
It might be the biggest gift you ever give them.