You want to find a good quality man online but all you keep meeting are a bunch of duds. You spend hours attempting to write a compelling profile but it still sounds boring and blah. Your eyes are all glazed over from reading page after page of profiles that are unattractive and unappealing. You send out lots of emails to your matches but get very few responses. The men you're most interested in never seem to write back, while the ones you have no interest in email you all the time.
In fact, you're so disgusted and fed up that you're seriously considering giving up on online dating altogether! I Know How You Feel! If this is how you feel about online dating, I can relate. Over the last 10 years, I've tried at least a dozen different online dating sites. I used to sit for hours staring blankly at my computer screen, waiting for the right words to come to me as I struggled to write my profile.
I sent countless emails to my matches, many of which went unanswered. I experienced the frustration of going out with guys who sounded and looked great in their profiles, but turned out to be rude, self-centered jerks when I met them in person.
Needless to say, I was not a happy camper in the online dating world! And so I set out to educate myself on how to become a more successful online dater.
I read all the books, blogs, and articles I could find on the subject, and learned a great deal about the do's and don'ts of profile-writing, posting photos, and communicating with my matches. My efforts paid off in the year when I met the man of my dreams on Match. We've been together since then and are planning to get married next year. I now want to pass on everything I've learned to you so you'll no longer have to struggle with online dating the way I did.
I want to share the secrets of how to find love online so that you too can be an online dating success story! In this eBook, I'll guide you through each and every step of the online dating process from start to finish. How to choose a site that's best for you How to choose a catchy username and headline that will capture your matches' attention The 3 main elements that your profile MUST contain in order to pique your matches' interest and make them want to contact you.
These 3 elements are what distinguish a mediocre profile from a great profile. The specific words to avoid using in your profile. How to efficiently screen and search for matches so you don't waste time contacting the wrong guys How to write great emails that your matches will want to respond to But my book doesn't just stop there! Unlike other online dating eBooks that focus only on the basics of the online dating process, my book also teaches you the skills, tips and strategies you need for creating the right relationship with the right person.
Here's just a sampling of the topics I cover: How to find out early on if the man you're dating is compatible with what you're seeking in a long-term partner How to talk to him about marriage and kids without scaring him away The 4 signs he wants to date you exclusively How to easily find out if he's being sincere in his profile 20 tips for a successful first date Red flags you must never ignore And much more!
And all of this isn't just theory; it's actually the same process I used in my own online dating journey that eventually led me to meeting my soulmate online.
But don't just take my word for it, see what other people are saying about my book: It is jam packed with very useful information for online dating and beyond. I found the information on writing a profile very helpful and especially like the section on how to bring up key relationship issues. Both of these sections have excellent examples of how to put these tips into action.
The chapter on 'When to be Exclusive' should be required reading for everyone!