Yet somehow, I am getting basically no flakes. Girls are showing up when they say they will. What is causing this sudden cultural change? I will show you what I mean and how you can stop online dating flakes. I have done more online dating than any one man should do, but it has given me a very clear perspective about how to do it the right way.
Machine Gun Online Dating vs. Sniper Online Dating Most guys go on tinder and do one of two types of online dating: Machine gun or sniper as I call them. Machine gun online dating is where you just mass message, mass get contact numbers and go on pure math to get girls. The down side to this? Down sides of Machine Gun Online Dating: Sniper online dating is when you choose specific targets or women and focus more of your attention on a select few.
For example I may choose a girl with a very pretty face, a girl with an amazing body, a girl with a big ass and a girl who looks just very sweet. Now, I can focus on these girls that I have a preference for, instead of just relying on math to get a date. When I was younger I would mix in some machine gun online dating. Now I do it much less because I prefer Sniper online dating.
This is a change in me as well as experience. Basically I get very little from just banging an average 6. Lucky for me, the world is full of sexy and interesting girls with all sorts of interesting characteristics physical and personality wise. Up sides to Sniper Online Dating: Much less flaking You can choose the girls who are hottest to you and have a good chance of getting them Sniper Online Dating is simple, but you must have a higher value profile to start out with check out my book for that.
Basically, the first thing you do is start a normal conversation. Your high value profile will help you at least get a reply. From there it is about using humor, building a connection and a few other things. Whatever you do, use humor in a way that does not come off as try hard. Check out this article to see my point: To do this you have a few options: Voice messages — voice messages help you use your voice to charm them.
Throw in some humor here and not only will it improve attraction, but it will help you become more real in her mind.
Do selfie videos — I know many guys out there are anti-selfie. One of the best things you can send are selfie videos of you in cool places could be a fancy place, a foreign country, etc. It is important that you are in an interesting place and also that you look handsome. Then send it and you will stand out big time from the army of other men chasing her. Photos of all kinds — You want to get photos of her and you always want to give her good photos of yourself at the best and soonest possible time.
I have had girls take buses for many hours just to meet me. These are girls I met online and only after webcamming would they drop everything, risk their physical well-being and come see me even though I am very far away.
Like speak to her every day the way a boyfriend and girlfriend would. Make Her Invest The final thing you should do is to make her invest in you in some way. Every time she sends you a selfie photo of herself, she slightly invests as long as she took it for you.
If she makes you a special video, she invests. If she helps you find a place to live, she invests. And, my favorite, if she sends you a nude picture or video… she invests. These things will all make her much more likely to go out of her way to make sure she meets you at the soonest possible moment. The Result If you did everything correctly you will have given her a reason to show up where and whenever you ask her.
She will not flake on you and you will most likely be sleeping with her that same day because you already did all the work. All that is left is to just show up and collect your prize. How to stop online dating flakes… solved! Take my knowledge with women and use it to help yourself I have probably too much information in my brain about women. I have shared most of this in my books, of which I have written 6. Check them out here. You will find books about how to talk to girls, read their body language, online dating, what makes a man attractive to a woman, what goes on behind closed doors with women and how to have attractive body language.
About the Author 20Nation I'm an American who has spent all of the last 6 years traveling the world and seducing women which has given me a level of expertise that can change your life. Check out my books: Sex and Adventure in South East Asia and more.