This happens so often to you that you start expecting women to stop texting you back or disappear into oblivion, because no matter what you do differently it always ends the same way. Never Had a Girlfriend? Guilty of pushing girls away at the last hurdle? Click Here to Jump to Reason 9.
You will never know the truth of how a girl feels about you without talking to her. So I urge you to always seek the truth rather than always making assumptions, for example: But what if that guy was actually her creepy boss?
But actually she just got out of a bad relationship and felt like she was falling for you. She was just being cautious. The girl in the bar desperately wants you to go and talk to her. This will help you face these situations with positivity and become an extremely attractive guy to be around.
What have you actually done to try and meet the girl of your dreams? Have you downloaded Tinder and created a profile? Have you signed up to online dating sites like Match. Have you been going out regularly or attended social events where you meet lots of new people? Have you joined a gym, yoga class or sports club? Have you gone to places women flock to like cafes, shopping malls, parks? Online dating apps like Tinder give you the opportunity to meet new women regardless of where you are, what your situation is, or how uncomfortable you are with talking to women in person.
What being single most of my life taught me is that the more girls you meet, the more you will begin to know what kind of girl you want as your girlfriend. And Tinder allows you to go from fishing in a pond to fishing in the sea! So get out there and meet as many women as you can, otherwise you will latch on to the first girl that gives you any attention and potentially settle for a mediocre relationship rather than the girl of your dreams.
If you want to get a girlfriend quickly watch this: And your girlfriend-less past is probably crushing your confidence around women. I get it — but seriously man — this is NOT a big deal. There is NO reason why this should effect your confidence in anyway. You have high standards and will not settle for anything less than the girl of your dreams.
This is the reality of the situation and the mindset you need to adopt. Besides, there are plenty of other things to make you feel confident about yourself around women even if you have very limited experience with the opposite sex. Source your confidence elsewhere. From your awesome career, your dedication to the gym, your new healthy life style, your new haircut, the size of your package, etc. Whatever makes you feel good about yourself, thrive off that. Projecting confidence is also about body language and breathing.
Put your shoulders back, chest out, raise your jaw, look people dead in the eyes and speak S L O W L Y with conviction. This will not just make you appear more confident but FEEL more confident. And this is going to sound harsh but I need to ask it: Think for a second, what is your position in the group of friends you regularly hang out with?
Are you the leader of the group or are you the guy who tags along and hangs in the background? The reason I ask this is because your position in the group of friends you hang out with when meeting women is crucial. But in college I was able to reinvent myself and start fresh.
Find a new group of friends who had no idea about how lame I was at school — and become one of the key decision makers in the group. Women naturally lean on leaders, so if you are not one of the leaders in the current group of friends then consider finding some new friends to go out with. A group in which people look up to you not put you down in front of others. Women crave dominant men who are willing to risk rejection or confrontation to get what they want and what they think is right.
In this texting scenario the girl was late for a date so I called her out in a playful way: Women are always secretly waiting for someone to tell them what to do. To recap, as a dominant man and leader of your group you: Waiting for the perfect moment rather than creating the moment and making it happen.
Next time you want to kiss a girl you can create the moment by doing this: Women are insanely attracted to men who are not afraid to take risks. Men who know what they want and go get it. Even if you get rejected after approaching a girl in a club or go in for a kiss and get denied, women will respect you for having the balls to try. Persistence is also a very attractive quality.
They would come to me to vent their frustrations and I would always offer a shoulder to cry on… But instead of seeing how much I could offer them they ALWAYS went back to their jerk boyfriends and the cycle continued. Women need to be clear about your intentions and feel that they are overwhelmingly desired, not rationally considered.
So although you may think it risky, you need to have no shame or guilt about your sexual desires and let your natural desire appreciation spill out, for example: It is your job to do something. Watch this video to start getting girls to think of you sexually rather than just as a friend: You do realise attracting the opposite sex is the whole point of fashion right?
I used to wear clothes two sizes too big for me and mismatched colours like I was colour blind. Next time you walk down the street try to spot how many women you make eye contact with glance immediately down at your feet. And do you always seem to screw things up at the last hurdle? You Are Too Available If you always put women before your life purpose, or mission, then they will get bored of you.
His current life purpose is 1. This is the ultimate challenge she always wants to fight for but never wants to win. So never make women the centre of your attention. Your mission comes first. He wants it before 3pm. She will respect you for this, e. You can be burning the midnight oil at college, hitting the gym hard, learning a new skill, etc.
As long as it is a mission with goals then it is a mission. Stay true to your mission. Never apologise for putting it above everything else — especially her. I used to make this mistake countless times in the past. Women will run a mile from you if they sense you are more emotionally attached to them than they are to you. The key to keeping your cool when you want to show her how much you appreciate her — without revealing your emotions and scaring her away — is to instead show your sexual appreciation for her.
We talked a little about getting sexual in the section about staying out of the friend-zone, so you know how important this is. Tell her how sexy her neckline looked in that black dress she wore, how amazing her legs looked in those high heels, how that dress made her bum look edible, etc. What delightful number do you plan to wear on our next encounter? And did you make a lot of these mistakes when texting her: Text her back immediately every single time 2.
Send more texts a day than she sends you 3. Flatter her repeatedly remember, you must tease her instead or get sexual 4. Send her regular updates on your day 5.
You were the one doing all the chasing and she was the one with all the power. Never text her for the sole reason of getting a response. You see, women will assign a certain status level to you. If you are too needy and eager they will automatically assume you are lower status. That they hold all the cards.
Women want to work for you. They want a challenge. Indifference is essentially an absence of need. It is more of a challenge for her to get emotion out of you than other guys. You become a challenge to her. So if she tries to force an emotional reaction you must resist.
Women use shit tests to filter out low value men and get to the quality ones. Women want a rock in a stormy sea. Once you master the art of indifference, the next step is to turn the tables and become the prize so she chases you. You Do All the Chasing The final element to keeping a girl hooked is to turn the tables around completely and get her chasing you. Make women come up to your level.