Get the latest from the blog: Maybe you want one? Or maybe you want sex tips on how to please a younger man, you know, just in case… Whatever your reasons for curiosity, I am sure we can all agree that trying to not only please a partner of any age but also keep things exciting for you will always be a learning curve, even at the best of times. There is no formula for pleasing a younger man.
But speaking as a nineteen year old male, I have a range of sex tips based on what I know we would respond to. Below are just nine of my tips for having a fun and exciting physical relationship with a younger man. He may be a virgin. He may be less experienced than you.
Or it may be his first time with a mature woman. As an older woman he may even see you as a teacher of sorts, I implore you to take advantage of this.
Like how in sex tip 1 you investigate his fetishes be sure to tell him yours so he can please you meritoriously. Once he satisfies you effectively make him feel special about doing it as seen in sex tip 2 to motivate him to keep it up. Does he like being touched there? Does he like one specific part of sex? And what does he want to do to me? The quickest and most effective way to please a man of any age is to discover what turns him on and then give it to him.
Sounds easy enough right? But, alas, when is it ever that simple. Just how young women are under a constant barrage of self-consciousness inducing advertising and pop culture young men are under a lot of pressure to measure up to a minimum standard of male beauty and also in socio-economic standings. In a long-term relationship a younger man may feel intimidated by a lady who earns more than him or whom is in a superior social position, which of course is extremely likely because an older woman has a head start on the chap.
Remember men have egos — so feed them a little. Whisper something explicit in his ear in the heat of passion and he will put more energy into finishing the job. You may have heard that confidence sets the tone of any function we undertake in our lives and it is true. If you feel confident in yourself you will hold yourself in a more alluring way and be more assertive as a result. Faking confidence just a little breeds confidence. Confidence is the death of awkwardness and there is nothing more off-putting than nervous sex.
Our resident age-gap dating specialist Gaynor did a fantastic video on this subject. If you still feel you need a push try some of the sex tips Gaynor mentions in her video. Talking can solve everything in a relationship.
A lacy corset, a complementing bra and pretty knickers — they can only enhance your confidence and give him plenty to keep his hands busy!
Think about your orgasm too. Sex is one of the most powerful, potent, prominent pleasures known to human kind. You will feel so much more relieved for it. A healthy relationship must have the capability for communication about anything and everything. A younger man who has a vested interest in mature women will almost certainly have fantasies about them.
If he has a fantasy about being spanked by a teacher — act it out, if you have a fantasy about being rescued by a sexy young firefighter and his massive hose — act it out.