But do you know how to build up sexual tension with men? How to drive him so crazy that he is going to want you right now? Sit back, and get ready for a treat. Have you always felt like a bit of a wooden doll on the dance floor as opposed to a slithering, sexual magnet on word ladies: When it comes to talking to men, do you feel like you come across as a bit icy, or a bit distant instead of teasing and inviting?
Nodding your head yes? Lighting the fire of desire and keeping the flames burning strong has probably never been something that you have been good at unfortunately, you might be better at putting out fires than getting them burning. There is some good news. You can change your approach.
You can be a guy magnet. The Power of Anticipation Guys like to play the game as much as girls do when it comes to ramping up the desire before the two of you jump into bed. Because anticipation is amazing and it makes the sex even better.
When talking and flirting with a guy we really like, we develop fantasies of what sleeping with him might be like. And he does, too. So if you can build the sexual tension, the event itself is going to be amazing.
Flirting is probably the best way of letting someone know that you dig them and want to take it to the next level. It is also your strongest tool for ramping up the sexual tension between yourself and the dude.
To build sexual tension via flirting, you have to get a bit naughty with what you say. What you ideally need to do is mix subtlety with directness. Instead of being brazen with what you want, subtly hint at it. Plant the seed in his head.
Make him ache with desire. Touch Him After flirting, touch is your next best weapon as you seek to drive sexual tension between you. Again, you need to be subtle. Run your fingertips along his face while complimenting his smooth skin. Run your hand through his hair, caressing it. Press a finger on his lips, telling him to be quiet. Apter points out in his book The Dangerous Edge: The Psychology of Excitement, taking risks takes us to higher states of arousal.
And when you share this euphoria with a man, the results can be really spectacular. You want each other more — but you both know you have to wait… 4. Sit Close Wherever you guys take a seat, be it at his house, your house or at a coffee shop or bar, make sure to always sit close to him. Touch his thighs and arms with yours. Never meet him looking like a poorer version of your best self. Always look your best. Wear the right outfits that accentuate your curves.
Tease him with some skin. You have all the tools that you need to be the siren of his dreams. Make them work for you! Let's take things to the next level. Occasional updates, no BS.