Miss Sugar and Kaeden Harveland are both sugar babies. Sugar dating via sites like Seeking Arrangement is talked about more openly and honestly than ever, with some daters growing a following by sharing their experiences on YouTube and social media.
For the unfamiliar, typically in these situations, successful sugar daddies or sugar mamas pay for dates and often sex with younger women or men known as sugar babies. How did you get into sugaring? What led me to being a sugar baby was probably people asking if they could pay me to go on dates with them via Grindr. Eventually, I want to get into modeling and maybe some acting! A few weeks later, he asked me if I would ever be interested in a sugar baby situation. It was a good experience.
I use Seeking Arrangement. I have a lot of free time now as well. Mar 19, at 3: How do you know if a client really has money? Before I meet up, I always get pictures of them and find out what they are all about. I like to see what their hobbies, career and personality are like before actually meeting up.
Miss Sugar Miss Sugar runs a YouTube account where she shares stories about her life as a sugar baby. What are some of the biggest misconceptions about being a sugar baby? If they disagree, then I move on. The key is to have them work for you, not for you to work for them. We also can be portrayed as lazy as well. I look at it this way: The prostitute thing is the biggest misconception.
I get where that is coming from, but being with a sugar baby is more of a relationship rather than just a transaction and the sugar baby gets taken on nice dates and gets pampered.
For instance, I went on one date with one of my oldest sugar daddies who ended up making me his personal assistant a few days later, and there is no sex involved in the relationship. Jul 2, at 1: Most of my sugar daddies are single or married and mainly bisexual or confused. Most are pretty new to the sugar daddy thing.
I think they also interpret giving money and trying this as a way to help them find their sexuality. But some of them are just lonely and need a companion. I can see where they are coming from, especially the ones that travel and have lots of money to just throw out. Most of my clients travel a lot and want a travel companion.
Many on the site are married, but I try to stick to the single ones even though there is much more money to made with the married guys. Describe your average date. A typical date would involve dinner and drinks in a bougie establishment.
The sugar daddy would also give me the agreed amount of cash. Well, every date is different for me. It can vary from dinners to walks to even a Skype call. Do you tend to get gifts? Miss Sugar To be a sugar baby, you have to "be very clear with exactly what you want but most importantly, enjoy doing what you're doing," Miss Sugar said.
And how long do they usually last? As for how long they last, some sugar baby relationships last months to years and some only end up happening one time. Looks are important to most. The length of the relationship varies. The longest one so far was four months. Oct 8, at 6: But most importantly, I listen to my gut instinct. Are your family and friends supportive of your job? Some of them do the same work as I do. I even inspired a lot of my friends to try it out. I get several messages a week for tips and tricks!
Miss Sugar "It's been really special connecting with girls who do the same or similar thing on social media," Miss Sugar said. Have you ever been in an actual relationship while sugaring? If so, what did your S. Weirdest sugar experience so far? One sugar daddy got super drunk and ran out naked outside the hotel room while I was sleeping and staff found him like that. I was so embarrassed when they woke me up me with a loud knock to return him to the room. Probably going on a date with a sugar mommy because it was definitely way out of our comfort zones.
In the end, it was a great time and I ended up making not only a sugar mommy from the date, but a friend.